The reality of a marriage is that it is hard work; an occupation that doesn't pay for overtime. With that said the first year is filled with carnal lust. Everyone looks good in the dark and everyone looks good in the daylight. What happens when year one turns into year 5, 6, or 7; we disillusion ourselves with the idea that the same love (oops I mean lust) transcends into something that is beautiful, but in fact what we make beautiful comes from hard work.
Now this monumental undertaking often ends up in a set of circumstances called divorce. In my mind divorce is what happens when people stop being selfless and start becoming selfish, if you remember this you will always remain grounded. I am not saying that I am perfect, because I am just as human as you and sometimes loose my way. You can only be judged not by your peers, but by your significant other, because the problems always begin behind closed doors. I love my wife dearly, but in order to keep her it is going to take some work.
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